First instinct when someone is hurting you is to get revenge, to make them feel the same pain that you feel or even worst.
But, you know, revenge is not the best solution because karma will take care of them and won't forgive anyone.
Dealing with people who put you down can be a painful and hurtful experience. Sometimes the scars even last a lifetime.
If you can't solve the problems you are facing, just move further and confuse them with your silence, amaze them with your actions, surprise them with your success, recycle the pain and stop wasting your time with people that don't deserve your presence.
And because we all know that most of the time, good people always forgive and give other chances to those who hurt them, I just want to remind you that next time when you say "yes" to others, make sure you won`t say "no" to yourself.
It says that you don't appreciate what you have until you lose it, but the truth is that you know what you have it's just you are sure that you can't lose it.
Show them that you are strong, show them that you can build an empire with all those stones that were thrown at you, show them that you can do good without having them around you, that you will keep moving forward despite all the pain, no matter how hard you get hit.
Truthfully, the less you expect from someone you care about, the happier your relationship with them will be. No one in your life will act exactly as you hope or expect them to.
No expectations, no disappointments.
"The pain you feel today is the strength you feel tomorrow!"
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